While a bouquet of red roses may be a bit overzealous for a first date, other flowers may send your message perfectly. Do some research and choose carefully; gardenias denote secret love, orchids are always lovely, showing beauty and refinement, while yellow roses mean friendship. Just be sure to order your flowers early because Valentine's Day  can be a busy time for this industry. Relationship level: Works for all levels

     Askmen.com listed their number one gift for men on Valentine's Day as a watch. It would be the equivalent to getting a woman jewelry. The website also indicated that if you receive this gift, it could mean that she wants the relationship to move to the next level.